Family Photographs
Family Photographs – Why are they important?
Family photographs are such an important part of building confidence in children. Seeimg themselves next to their proud parents builds confidence and reminds them of the love and bond you all share. Often when parents book a photoshoot they will say ‘just the baby’ or ‘only the children’ and my plea to you all is to get in the photographs with your children. Enjoy the experience, be present in the moment and exsist in photos.
We are great at capturing random selfies and pulling silly faces with our kids, but if you’re anything like me this is all you have, especially us Mums. I bet as a mother you are always snapping your kids playing with Daddy or grab your camera when you see a moment Daddy and daughter share. But does your partner do the same with you? I bet for 90% of Mums the answer is No. Very few men see things in the same way as us Mums and so it would not cross their mind to grab a snap of a Mummy and Daughter bonding or a Mother and son sharing a cuddle. For me as a single parent I have not got anyone to capture those moments and all I have is the few professional family photographs we have had taken with another photographer or when I have managed to bribed my children into the studio and taken one with the camera on self timer.
This picture above of me and my girls is the last one taken that is not a selfie and it is a year old already. I can see so many changes in my children. My youngest has gone from looking like a child to a young lady and we all have new glasses so I definitely need to get an update done. Lockdown has not been kind to me, my waistline has expanded and my hair hasn’t had a trim for well over a year! But my kids don’t see those things. For me it is important to still have photos taken despite being self conscious of these things because I don’t want my children to grow up with body confidence issues. I wonder what I can bribe them with this time?
The Pandemic and national lockdown restrictions has been a stark reminder of how much our loved ones mean to us and how much we miss them when they are not around. Family photographs with grandparents and cousins proudly displayed at home have no doubt provided a great topic of conversation, sharing memories of happy times together.
I have been extreamely fortunate that I have not lost anyone close to me to Covid, but I did lose my younger brother suddenly 2 years ago so I know all to well the pain and heartache many families are experiencing. The sudden unexpected devestating loss, not being able to say goodbye or make final memories together brings another level to grief and sometimes guilt too. I treasure the photos I have of my brother and laugh about the good time we shared. However there are very few photos in exsistance of us as a family. I have 4 siblings in total and there are only 3 photos of all of us together, just 3! 2 of these also include my Dad and 1 of them also includes my children. How is it possible that we only ever got together for 3 photographs?
So my plea to you all is to be present in your photos! Your children love you just the way you are, lets face it if we wait til we are happy in our skin we will never do it and tomorrow may be to late.
Marie
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